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This video shows a great explanation of how many and women think about different issues. Men take a very direct approach to conflict and are always trying to figure out the problem. Which makes sense from one point of view because of the guy can fix the problem then there will no longer be a problem. Women on the other hand like to speak on emotion and feelings. In most cases women tend to not want the guy to fix the problem but to validate what she is saying and actively listen to her issues. From a women's perspective sometimes it is better to have someone hear you out without making conclusions or assumptions all the time. Both of these approaches have their differences, but that does not make one or the other better. Sometimes it's better to understand that people view everything from a different lens, and although you make think your side is simple and easy to understand, other people might not always feel the same. Being conscientious of other people can save a lot of unneeded annoyance when communicating with other people.
-Raboin
